Quick answer
Is this the right kind of help?
It may fit when
Family members, partners, friends, and others who want support for the effects of another person’s drinking.
It is not designed for
Medical care, emergency response, domestic-violence safety planning, or treatment for the person whose drinking is the concern.
Service role: Family and friends mutual support; not treatment for the person drinking
What the service can help with
- Connects relatives and friends with people who understand the effects of someone else’s drinking.
- Offers local, hybrid, electronic, and telephone meeting routes depending on the area.
- Provides a support focus for the attendee’s own wellbeing rather than trying to control or treat another person.
What to expect when you make contact
Getting started
A person searches the official meeting list and checks whether the group is in person, hybrid, or electronic.
During the contact
Members share experience within a peer-led Twelve Step fellowship; meetings are not therapy or professional advice.
What comes next
Anyone concerned about someone else’s drinking may attend the meetings identified by the organization as available to newcomers.
Privacy considerations
The fellowship emphasizes personal anonymity. Individual venue, electronic-platform, camera, registration, recording, and local reporting practices still need to be confirmed.
Privacy rules belong to the outside provider. Read its current terms before sharing information that could affect your decision to use the service.
Accessibility and practical checks
- Meeting venue, technology, language, schedule, age rules for Alateen, and disability access vary.
- Confirm whether the meeting is open or closed, whether registration is required, and how confidentiality is described.
- If drinking is connected with threats, stalking, or violence, use a specialist safety service or local emergency help rather than relying only on a support meeting.
Questions to answer before relying on it
- Are you seeking support for the impact of another person’s drinking rather than treatment for that person?
- Does the meeting format, schedule, language, age group, and access fit your needs?
- Do you also need legal, domestic-violence, child-safety, clinical, or emergency support?
Important limits and safety notes
- Al-Anon does not diagnose or treat alcohol use disorder and cannot make another person stop drinking.
- Group culture and local access vary, so trying another meeting can be reasonable when one is not a fit.
- Immediate danger and abuse require specialist or emergency routes beyond mutual support.
Backup routes
Alternatives to compare
Original contribution
What YouMatter adds
YouMatter separates support for the affected family member or friend from treatment for the person drinking, then adds cost, meeting-format, privacy, violence-safety, and alternative-route questions.
How this option differs
Best for a person affected by someone else’s drinking. It does not treat that person. NIAAA supports adult treatment selection; SMART offers both individual and family/friends program routes.
Primary-source trail
Official information used for this profile
Each link goes to the provider or program owner. The note beside it identifies which decision fields it supports.
Al-Anon meeting finder ↗
Supports: Local, electronic, and phone meeting routes and provider identity
Al-Anon global electronic meetings ↗
Supports: Current electronic meeting listings and formats
Al-Anon 2024 membership survey ↗
Supports: Purpose, membership scope, and no-dues-or-fees policy

